Commitment Phobia......

Why Are Men Commitment phobic?? Why does the topic of marraige scare away even the smartest of them:)

What do they lose anyway-They get to keep their surnames, their locations, their jobs, their homes, their everything....

They talk of losing Independence....But whenever I see my married friends-both guys and gals -its the wife who rushes back home early to cook dinner, to clean the house for the party, to greet the visiting in-laws....It is the wife who has to be careful about wat she wears in presence of whom, it the wife who has to answer questions like-" when do u plan to start a family".....


When will guys learn to accept that pleasures in life come with their share of responbilities -and one cant have the former without the latter- Is it too much to ask anyways??

Sleeping?...Alone???

Heard this statement for the nth time today- "women sleep around to get favours, raises, promotions etc".....
I wonder wat the man is doing when a woman is supposedly sleeping with him-checking his emails?? Is he not a part of the act? Is he being raped? Why does he allow himself to be used if at all he is being used....
I wonder if this is a language issue or a perception issue......

Bibin speaketh.....

Bibin is my unit of Whackiness- I consider myself being rated as 0.5- Bibin.....

I have discovered the Whacky side of me by being in conversation with Bibin- we start with talking abt nothing and then move on to variety of topics- with our conversations ending with both of us expressing sorrow on the ignorance, stupidities and general follies of people around us.... The idea being that by projecting ourselves as better than the rest of the world- we make a nice cosy world around us and dump our stresses away-this is a wonderful recipe for bursting stress provided u know the euphoric effect needs to be discarded as soon as the conversation ends.
So you can try the Bibin Rating for your self and see how you fare....Just close your eyes and think how shabby the world is as compared to your own glorius self....

For the casual visitor-Bibin is a human being belonging to the male variety with an extraordinary sense of humour....am not linking his blog -find it yourself.....
And yes to give you an example for our whacky conversations- here are some smart words spoken by my whacky mentor-

1. U r the bright and the brighter and the brightest

2.Innocence starts with you

3.I am only older- u r OLD

4.U r much too intelligent to become my fan

5.I only crib that women don't notice me enough

6. The word "crib" came from womankind only

7.I am the most non-meanie present ever- Amen to that

The Moment

"I don't want to lose you" -He knew he was too late but he wanted her to know.

She didnt turn back-"I was never yours to lose."

He went out and stood in the rain, the raindrops washed away his tears.

The world around him seemed to have become a blur-Sometimes the simplest things are

the most difficult to understand............