Commitment Phobia......

Why Are Men Commitment phobic?? Why does the topic of marraige scare away even the smartest of them:)

What do they lose anyway-They get to keep their surnames, their locations, their jobs, their homes, their everything....

They talk of losing Independence....But whenever I see my married friends-both guys and gals -its the wife who rushes back home early to cook dinner, to clean the house for the party, to greet the visiting in-laws....It is the wife who has to be careful about wat she wears in presence of whom, it the wife who has to answer questions like-" when do u plan to start a family".....


When will guys learn to accept that pleasures in life come with their share of responbilities -and one cant have the former without the latter- Is it too much to ask anyways??

Sleeping?...Alone???

Heard this statement for the nth time today- "women sleep around to get favours, raises, promotions etc".....
I wonder wat the man is doing when a woman is supposedly sleeping with him-checking his emails?? Is he not a part of the act? Is he being raped? Why does he allow himself to be used if at all he is being used....
I wonder if this is a language issue or a perception issue......