Dhokha hai pyar....

Pyar hai dokha.... heard this song on my way to office while sitting in the cab....
Dhoondega koi bahana dhoondega koi nishaana, dil ka bazaar yahan toh, dil ko dilon se bachana....crooned Alisha Chinai, on checking I found it being a part of the entirely forgettable movie Murder's music album-talk of diamonds in a coal mine!!! lovely song, with a sixties intonation and lilt-Alisha has done full justice to the song....and of course the lyrics.....how many times have i heard this- getting betrayed is probably a universally old phenomenon.....and yet nobody stops loving :)
Being a self proclaimed Agony Aunt I can tell many stories of what happens next...after being dumped............But I won't ..that is because of another self determined NDA agreement between such affected parties and me:)
All I can say is dont ever love anyone more than u love yourself- Selfish as it might sound-it works miracles in acting as a firewall and safeguarding you from making a fool of yourself...Nothing or nobody is more important(parents being the exception of course)than you, dont let someone ruin ur life- preserve ur dignity and self esteem at all costs. If one has to lose - lose in such a way that you take the punch out of the winner's joy:)
And if someone kicks you go and kick that someone twice as hard...And then go out and have a party and remember me:)
So dil ko bachana dokha na khana, dhokha hai pyar, pyar hai dhoka................

M Boleh Toh.....

MICROSOFT aur kya:)

I have spent almost 2 years in this org-India Development Center to be precise-and it has been 2 years of hardwork, fun and loads of learning.
So what does it take to be a Microsoftian- I am not talking of the Technical Skills- you need to have a penchant for thinking out of the box all the time-creativity is a culture here , and you need to be fun loving , like to live on the edge with a sense of adeventure, take on new challenges without thinking twice and Yes most importantly live without a sense of fear- All of that and lots more.It breeds a culture that makes people responsible and accountable- you dont get to Boss around, neither do you get to live to flatter your Boss .
Live, Dream, think and grow as a professional, thats what makes a Microsoftian unique.....

This might sound like a publicity board from a HR professional.....
Actually this is a direct dil ki baat from a happy and contented employee......
I do not know what the future holds for me, I do not know if tomm is going to be good....but today I am happy and will sleep peacefully:)