Hopes & Dreams

Do we always get what we deserve

Do we always deserve what we get

Here I am -trying to make a home out of nothing

From fragments of hope

And binding them together with Faith

I left my dreams somewhere far away

And lost a part of me- A part that was beautiful

I am mid-way and can't give up

It's the need and necessity that pulls me on

Somewhere this will end, Oh the Futility of it All

Someone waiting forever for someone who never comes home....

Why we "shout from the rooftops"

My friend asked me- "Why do you women need to shout from the rooftops about your independence and maturity -and the fact that you don't need a man to make you happy. Who's asking anyways and who's interested in what you women do".

Had this question come from a lesser man I wouldnt have given a damn to this thought, but he is one of the few guys I have met who don't carry old stereotypes and can accept mistakes without mincing words..so that set me thinking...and here is what I think could be the reason for what he calls us "we shouting from the rooftops"

1. We don't shout from the rooftops- to start off with- it's just that we are more vocal and verbose about our opinions-and why not- we think our opinions are not opinionated meaning they are not biased or based on seeing one side of the picture. We have been oriented to be neutral, level headed and truthful in every aspect and don't see the reason to hold back our views

2. The fact that we focus more on the man-woman relationship issue is because this is a huge grey area, with loads of things undefined especially in the urban scenario.While urban women have moved a lot and evolved in terms of their thought processes, perception, values etc, somewhr the urban young man is lagging in his ideas, most of them have used their education to enhance their employability , not their EQ. Most of them r still struggling to bridge the gap between what they have
seen as a part of growing up and NOW

3.Its also a fact that its no use "casting pearls before a swine"- In other words we also would not have wasted out time, effort, energies if we felt that it is falling on deaf ears or ears who can't understand or take it- So guys its actually a credit and a compliment to you- we think you can take a slightly bitter pill and accept a different side of the same story

So my friend if you are reading this- I hope I have been able to answer your query-If not .....please let me know your views....and let's take this further- nothing like a coffee and a discussion with an intelligent man:))

Tell Me....

Wat is worse- Living in a Euphoric state or living in a world of bitter truth???

IIMBians in Hyderabad

This weekend was the stuff nightmares r made of - or maybe bad dreams( i guess tht sounds better:))
Two of my friends-I call them Buddies descended on Hyderabad and life is never going to be the same for poor simple Hyderabadis:)...

Friend 1- Bibin

Friend 2- Peeyush

Duration of stay 2 days

Effect on Hyderabad- Wind, Storm, Rains, traffic Jams, Near riot conditions......

Some excerpts of our conversations-



Peeps-"Who drives a Red Santro- Let me hop onto a AutoRickshaw- Its more classy"

Peeps-" Geez there r so many people in Hyd- where do u get them from"



Bibs-"You call me to Hyd and make me drive 500 miles- at this rate I will reach Nagpur"


Bibs-" Hyd is doing really well -at this rate they will be as good as Bangalore in a Zillion years"



And there is this little baby who had the last word or rather the last expression- I AM BORED ..IIMBians am not impressed!!!!

And there was ME-having fun...........at all times....

Thanks a Bunch Guys.....

And Give Hyd some time to recover and we will invite U again:))